Ask Men on Yik Yak | Met him a month ago, he calls and talks for hours everyday, but recently hit me with asking if I can help with with anything financially, is this a red flag or am I being the red flag thinking that was one?

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Ask Men 8w

Met him a month ago, he calls and talks for hours everyday, but recently hit me with asking if I can help with with anything financially, is this a red flag or am I being the red flag thinking that was one?

Anonymous 8w

Men shouldn't be asking women for handouts. Especially if they've only known you for a month. He's a red flag

Anonymous 8w

It’s a red flag depending on if you determine whether he’s worth the investment. As in, is he the type to pay back in some way or is he just trying to get a feeebie. If he genuinely is in a dire situation, it’s possible to help him out and it turns out out good for you, use your judgement carefully

Anonymous

#3 8w

See I was thinking the same thing as all of you, yea he seems ok, but idk him well enough to know he wouldn’t just run with the money I only know the things we have talked about and he is very restrictive on what he tells me bc he says he doesn’t ’want to say too much too soon’ the end of the month will be 2 months but idk Also like 2ish/3 weeks in he asked me if I loved him But I also don’t know how to pull away without him trying to guilt trip me or something

Anonymous

OP 8w

Your safest bet is blocking him imo

Anonymous

OP 8w

this seems like a giant red flag. run