Anonymous #1 67w

Explain?

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Anonymous #3 67w

ok but like what’s your definition of yearning

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Anonymous #3 67w

Like is it constantly thinking about them and what it would be like to date them or is it mainly lustful like “need to hit that… anyways lemme swipe on tinder”

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Anonymous OP 67w

Intense wanting or longing for someone especially someone who you can’t have for whatever reason

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Anonymous #3 67w

You pull this straight out the dictionary or?

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Yes a lot like this. Rereading every convo we’ve had, seeing where they’re at, checking their friends social medias to possibly see them too, writing these thoughts about them, etc

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Anonymous OP 67w

No, that’s what I define it as

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Anonymous orange_joyful_cat44 67w

Finally an honest answer

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Anonymous #8 67w

I don’t go after men

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Anonymous OP 67w

Then what experience do you have to say men don’t yearn 😂

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Anonymous OP 67w

Men don’t yearn for women anymore because the women that men would yearn for don’t exist anymore.

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Anonymous #8 67w

Yeah bc I’m sure 80% of the men at college has had his heart chewed up and spit out before 18 years old. Some guys don’t have to go through heart break to be a bad person, some people just are bad people. And unfortunately in this generation with the accessibility to porn and dating sites it’s easy for men to get their quick gratification

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Anonymous #9 67w

Because the men that yearn for them are not the men they want yearning for them

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Anonymous #8 67w

I meant like I don’t go after those kinds of guys you assumed I “go after the wrong guys” like no I’m very strict with my boundaries

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Anonymous #1 67w

What kind of women would you yearn for

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Yes and no bc Women don’t struggle as much with porn as men do and there’s been lots of studies that show the way it effects the male brain to view women as just objects

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Anonymous #1 67w

And before you say “nuh uhh women like that still exist”, yes, of course they do, just like men who yearn

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Anonymous #1 67w

No you’re good you can say what you feel

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Anonymous #1 67w

Yeah exactly ofc they’re exceptions but they’re hard to come by yk. Everyone in this comment section is an exception warrior like god forbid I speak on what I see.

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College campus

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Anonymous #10 67w

In general, like I have some 10/10 friends and men still just only lustful

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Outside (my school has a huge quad where people usually go) Dorm parties, and bars

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Also like all of my guy friends are a huge reason why I think this way, like they’re great people I love them, but the way they go about hooking up with people is so saddening like where’s the love?????

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Bro please, you can’t be serious. Those are the main places to socialize. I’m not gonna bother someone random in the library and I’m most likely not gonna find the love of my life in a class room where we can’t even talk and most people leave immediately once it’s over

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Sure sometimes, but I go out from time to time that doesn’t mean I’m an alcoholic who just wants to fuck? So no I kinda disagree with where you are says everything about your character

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Huh? What are you taking about “If we’re supposed to be patient with people when there’s a hormone imbalance” where’s this coming from

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Are you refering to periods? Bc a women’s period is not controllable, a man’s lust.. is.

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Never said they were incapable

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It’s just easier for them to not have feeling and fuck whoever they can. Not that they can’t love, they just don’t care to

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Selfish creatures

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“If we’re talking about hormones” bro we’re not talking about hormones. You seem to want to talk about hormones tho. I don’t. You’ve lost the plot and made this conversation way more draining than it needs to be. Simple wish men yearned post and expected comments like “no we do *insert their cute stories to give me hope* not a fucking gender hormone war

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People still people yeah yeah alright ok

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Anonymous #12 67w

I hope someone matches your yearn king 🤞

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Anonymous #12 67w

Based - I’ve done it and it fuckin’ hurts and I can’t just will myself into that again

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Anonymous #10 67w

It’s ok to let your heart feel something😞✊

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Anonymous OP 67w

I am not consciously choosing to not yearn, I am simply experienced (jaded) enough that no woman I know inspires it in me

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I was contrary to the girl that replied speaking for men bc I wanted a males response in ask men. And then the others were not giving examples and when I asked for examples it turned into something way different

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Anonymous #10 67w

You can’t choose to feel or not feel about something. I’d argue that the way I feel about the women I know has more to do with them than me

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Anonymous #10 67w

Fair enough, I hope you find someone who inspires you again

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Anonymous OP 67w

I appreciate you, I hope you inspire someone

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Anonymous #14 67w

Alright I’m logging off

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Yall do too much l

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Anonymous ireallylikepancakes 67w

Btw I think we go to the same school

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Anonymous #21 67w

I just realized the assault charge sounds so messed up without explanation. There was a dude in highschool who groped her and it didn’t sit well with me so I ended up with 4th degree assault and assault with a deadly weapon but she said I over reacted and it wasn’t that big of a deal, idc what she says tho, I don’t regret it.

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Anonymous #21 67w

As you should, anyone who does that shit deserves a beating.

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Anonymous #1 67w

Accurate!

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Anonymous #26 67w

This is such a valid and healthy statement idk why you got downvoted

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Anonymous sea_taco 67w

Lmao go dawgs

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Anonymous ireallylikepancakes 67w

Yep this is crazy

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Anonymous #16 67w

I ain’t even notice

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Anonymous #16 67w

People jus haters tho

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Anonymous #25 67w

Valid

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Anonymous OP 66w

Why do you have such an insanely negative view of men and seem surprised to hear that men can indeed feel deep emotion outside of lust? Jfc

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Anonymous #34 66w

because of men, how they treat women, and how they treat each other! hope this helps

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