the one. I thought like this with my BD and finally got over him and then slowly started talking to this guy. Do you think there’s still a chance between us? I’m willing to wait because I’m not in a rush. But my kid loves him and he doesn’t like people often and we still see him and visit

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I wouldn’t wait on him, someone that inconsistent and not ready to commit isn’t ready to be there completely for you and your kid. It’s not bad to keep them in your kids life but find someone who will love both of you without hesitation.

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He’s clearly not over his ex. If he moves on from her, maybe it could work, but there’s nothing you can do to make him ready, it can only come from him. You can wait for him and hope he does, but he’s told you where he stands and there’s no promise of a timeline or that he will change his mind at all, so if you choose to wait then it’s your choice, you’re not allowed to be mad he’s taking too long or wasting your time.

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