Ask Men on Yik Yak | do men have an understanding of like “aesthetics” (clean girl, granola girl, etc. for example)? and if you do, do y’all feel like your type aligns with one of those archetypes?

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Ask Men 1w

do men have an understanding of like “aesthetics” (clean girl, granola girl, etc. for example)? and if you do, do y’all feel like your type aligns with one of those archetypes?

Anonymous 1w

no because obsessing over aesthetics is some of the most vain bs of all time lol no amount of aesthetic makes up for a dull personality so I would never align with something so superficial

Anonymous 1w

please no more of this 🙏

Anonymous 1w

Yeah absolutely. Although I think a mix of aesthetics is super attractive, like someone who’s an athlete who throws sick streetwear fits. Hard to find tho unfortunately 😔

Anonymous 1w

I only care about cool girl vs not cool girl

Anonymous 1w

I mean I’m not a man but ik my bf is rly into my style. He knows a shocking amount about it and i definitely think it’s part of what drew him to me

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Anonymous 1w

We do, at least the more online ones aware of Pinterest do. Personally dont dress for an archetype

Anonymous 6d

i prefer the "artsy girl, tumblr girl" archetype

Anonymous

#1 1w

lmao, what makes someone cool?

Anonymous

OP 1w

They are passionate and ambitious about things, they take care of themselves, and they’re respectful of others

Anonymous

#2 1w

noted

Anonymous

#1 1w

that makes sense! i guess the question is more about like someone type in personal style, but obviously there’s deeper stuff than that

Anonymous

#2 1w

I mean having preferences isn’t rly vain. Although you’re right it doesn’t make up for personality

Anonymous

#5 1w

didn’t say having preference was I said obsessing over aesthetics was…. not a big reader I take it

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Anonymous

#5 1w

I think someone who has a really strong sense of self & expressed that through personal style is really cool! I like it when men care about things like personal style so I wondered if some men were the same!

Anonymous

loverboy 1w

Yeah, archetype was definitely the wrong word

Anonymous

#3 1w

Ah that’s fun! Streetwear is really cool & has cool history!

Anonymous

#2 1w

But this person never said obsessing over, they were talking about preferences and you brought in obsession and vanity for no reason. You actually did make it sound like caring about it at all was obsessing

Anonymous

OP 1w

As far as I can tell a few def are. Most of my male friends have unique styles and also like and take an interest in mine

Anonymous

#5 1w

that’s really cool! I think it’s fun when someone can share my interest in fashion & whatnot w me without making it seem like only a “girly” thing—i love Wisdom Kaye on instagram! his fits are amazing

Anonymous

OP 1w

Dude I made a joking post about trimming my shi as part of my spring cleaning and I had no less than 5 people hop in my dms

Anonymous

#5 1w

How you not a man but answering the question why you even in here 💀

Anonymous

#6 1w

Idk I’m talking about men? I’m kinda answering for my bf who does not have yikyak,