Ask Men on Yik Yak | I’m recently graduated and my boyfriend is still in college. He lives about an hour away from me. I work a lot of night shifts in a somewhat unsafe area and I take the bus. Is it unreasonable to want him to pick me up? If so, I won’t ask him to.

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I’m recently graduated and my boyfriend is still in college. He lives about an hour away from me. I work a lot of night shifts in a somewhat unsafe area and I take the bus. Is it unreasonable to want him to pick me up? If so, I won’t ask him to.

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Anonymous 1w

Depends on how often you want him to pick you up

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Anonymous 1w

(Super new relationship for context)

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Anonymous 1w

Is it possible to shift schedules and make the pickup and “date night” align? So you’re still having the same amount of time together, just without so much commuting?

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Anonymous 1w

I think that’s reasonable

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Anonymous 1w

You are asking too much

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Anonymous

#1 1w

Like once a week

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Anonymous

OP 1w

For an hour drive maybe once every couple of weeks may be a little more reasonable

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Anonymous

#1 1w

I see. He drives every week for date night as well so it would be a lot.

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Anonymous

OP 1w

He must care a lot then

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Anonymous

#4 1w

No, because I work like 3-11 or 9 to 9 sometimes 😭 so I just want to go to sleep

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