Why do yall stare at girls and not approach. I’ve seen a lot of guys use the excuse of the RBF but like what else should I do when im just sitting there
The current culture has made it clear that it is inappropriate to approach people randomly unless they give clear signals
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Anonymous9w
I have no fucking clue what to say.
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Anonymous9w
Do it yourself if it bothers you that much
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Anonymous9w
If I’m staring at someone I’m probably not even realizing I’m staring or trying to look at them, I’m probably just staring off into space and they just happen to be in the direction I was looking when I zoned out 💀
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Anonymous9w
We don’t wanna make you uncomfortable by approaching
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Anonymous#19w
The staring is uncomfy
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Anonymous#39w
I’m asking guys. Bc you stared at me first
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AnonymousOP9w
I never look at women let alone approach, I think the reasoning has been stated by other guys a million times
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Anonymous#39w
What
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AnonymousOP9w
1) women have made it very clear they hate it
2) women are often rude to men who approach
3) men literally get rejected 95% of the time
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Anonymous#39w
We want guys to approach instead of starting. I can’t vouch for number 2 but where did you get that statistic from?
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AnonymousOP9w
literally, if you’re going to make it a point that you’re looking at me… speak to me… or stop
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Anonymous#49w
Yes lol. Guys act like it’s a viable option but I gre up thinking if you stare say smth
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Anonymous#59w
No not really. I mean do yall approach random people to say a compliment to them? To talk? Not just romantically
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AnonymousOP9w
Not really no. Maybe a complement sometimes but that’s only in passing so they can leave as quickly as possible
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Anonymous#59w
Oh well that’s not normal. I think we need to be more social. But like it I wanna talk to someone I will. We are social creatures.
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AnonymousOP9w
Obviously it’s not an exact statistic but it’s definitely somewhere in that ballpark. Ask any guy who approaches women
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Anonymous#49w
Well maybe if it’s like intent staring, most I do is a glance 2-4 times max before I say yeah I’m too chopped and don’t wanna make her uncomfortable
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AnonymousOP9w
You may be surprised how few people talked to strangers
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Anonymous#59w
Yeah it can be hard, I’m shy myself
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Anonymous#19w
It’s always intent staring
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Anonymous#39w
Women can get rejected too? Also it depends on where, what we’re doing etc. I’ve been approached before and it wasn’t he right time.
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AnonymousOP9w
Not nearly as often as men though, that’s for sure. Plus it’s not like women can’t just wait for men to come to them. And it doesn’t matter how well you approach, you’re still gonna get rejected 95% of the time
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Anonymous#39w
I’ve been rejected too. Most of the times I’ve tried to approach. I find better success when guys come to me
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AnonymousOP9w
Well at least that’s an option for you. Women very rarely approach and when they do they usually go for the absolute best of the best men, which if that’s true for you may explain why you got rejected
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Anonymous#39w
No lol I’m better than them. They were cute to me and well kept but I’m better looking. I think girls usually are no offense . Also that charges for everyone