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I’m wondering why men are greatly assuming women don’t want them to approach at all anymore. Is it just because of things you’ve seen online? Irl interactions?
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Anonymous 1w

I would say my women friends say they don’t want to be approached + I have had bad results + what I’ve seen online. Im sure some women would like it but unknown men can be threatening to them so it would be sweet if they approached cause I would not feel threatened

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Anonymous 1w

Idk, I just don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable

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Anonymous 1w

Yes

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Anonymous 1w

Mostly what I’ve seen online yeah

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Anonymous 1w

What they say online + bad interactions

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Anonymous 1w

Do you live on another planet? Women don’t hide their hatred for men very well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

One time I recommended some (admittedly pretty horny) 80’s music to a girl I thought I was friends with, and 3 months later found out she was telling people I had “threatened to rape her”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

She’s just crazy 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Like what do you see

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Just like sooo many incredibly botched attempts at interacting with women. I saw a guy ask a girl what her name was and she said she didn’t have one and walked away. Like that’s just viscous. Along with that the only time I’ve ever really seen a woman date anyone less attractive than her is like Pete Davidson. And I’ve never seen a guy that looks like me with a gf in my life. And now you have the tea app and it’s like “damn, if I so much as ask out the wrong girl on the wrong day she can just

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

post whatever she wants about me for millions of girls to read completely unsubstantiated.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

But it goes so much deeper than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yeah. I can get that, I think the interactions like that aren’t as often irl tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah that’s where it goes deeper because deep down I acknowledge that most interactions don’t go anything like that. I acknowledge that despite the probably hundreds or thousands of posts and comments I’ve read most women are completely fine with and even encourage men to go up to them and talk to them and ask them out. I acknowledge that guys like me do have a chance no matter what. It’s just that my brain doesn’t really like to confront that information so I keep all of it deep down and resign

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

myself to the life I’m living now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

It’s refreshing to see someone who can acknowledge diff viewpoints lol I see so many guys who are hard set on women not dotn want men to approach at all but it’s not the case, it goes deeper than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Yeah. I’ve approached sometimes but for me, instead of approaching the alternative they’ll do is staring and that creeps me out more. Idk it’s a lot of layers to this discussion

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Well thats the alternative you notice, you wouldn’t notice someone who doesn’t stare or approach but is into you. But yes lots of layers

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Yes ofc, but that’s the one they do most often . Like it very obvious

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

No… it seems most often because THATS the one you notice

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

You don’t get what I’m saying 😵‍💫 my friends say the same thing, so what’s some other ways

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Quick Look and not look back is a very common one

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

What else

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Couple looks and then on phone is a good one

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

They all involve looking. We notice that too lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You know when you do notice… if you don’t notice you wouldn’t know..

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