
I'm an Asian guy who has dealt with non-Asian women treating me in similar ways as non-Latino men have treated Latina women and unfortunately, I do think a lot of this is racism and fetishization. A lot of POC, Asian, Black, and Latino people of all genders deal with issues like this unfortunately, but a lot of women in particular experience it due to misogyny as well I'm sorry you've been dealing with this and hope you find someone who likes you for you like they should