You’re not indebted to them, if you want to pay back in some way it’s your prerogative to do so but def not required

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Idk I just do it bc it’s a social norm and I don’t want a gal paying for her own food in a date I asked her out on

6

Depends what we’re doing. If I invited her to go somewhere, like taking her out to eat, usually I’m paying for that, cause I’m not volunteering her to pay for that herself. Sometimes she pays for things if she wants to treat me. If it’s something bigger, like travel or tickets to an event, we’ll figure out how to split it.

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I’ve never done so personally. I don’t think I’d be able to enjoy it & it kinda grosses me out. It’s like giving up on getting laid properly. & ik most women I’ve heard from say they’d be completely icked and would never even consider dating a guy who’d done it before

2

Ngl. I hate always paying and wish it could be normalized to split, and also have the dinner payed for as a whole in turns

1

Hella overrated and if she doesn't pay for her own meal I'm not having a second date

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