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If he pays for me to fly out to see him does that mean he wants me in a more serious way or is he just spending money for fun
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Anonymous 9w

Depends on the amount of money he has.

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Anonymous 9w

Spending money for fun. If he flew himself out to see you it would be serious

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Anonymous 9w

Ig it depends. Is he spending $50 or more like $200? The more money the more likely he is wanting a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

It’s around $400 but I just don’t know like what’s a little or a lot for him bc for me that’s a lot but maybe it’s bc I’m still in school while he has a big boy job😭

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

Ugh yeah that’s the problem idk what his range of wealth is bc for me it’s a lot but for him who knows

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

How long has he been out of school?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Well think objectively, does he carry himself as having money? Like does he wear a Casio or a Rolex? Abercrombie or Armani? Does he drive a beat up Chevy or a Porsche?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Also, what’s his field? Like even as a young lawyer or doctor they’re sure making enough…

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 9w

He graduated like last fall with a business degree

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

No no lol he’s not one to buy those things even if he does have the money yk like he’s not very flashy lol, but ig I only knew him for the few years we had in college

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

He’ll have been graduated for a year by the fall with his business degree but I think he’s doing sales for a company rn, and I know he’s done well and gotten promoted alr but that’s not my field at all and idk typical salaries😀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Don’t think it was all that serious then. $400 is a Nintendo switch.

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