Anonymous #1 12w

Oh I knew that but just wanted to show the women there that he was in the minority!

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 12w

I can yeah. So basically he said that he sees women as status symbols. He talked about how he sees women as trophies that men have if they are like- cool I guess? He compares the women who likes him/ liked him to the women who liked his friends.

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 12w

He also was very open about the fact he treats women who are unattractive to him differently from those who he does see as attractive. He didn’t understand why women dress up or look nice if not to attract men as well.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 12w

oh BROTHER😭 nope i see my gf as my best friend, my teammate in life, and my overall favorite person. someone i wanna do everything with, and someone i wanna spend the rest of my life making as happy as humanly possible. op 100% idolizes the guys from fresh and fit

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 12w

my sister used to dress up to do nothing in the house, it has nothing to do with men😭

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 12w

Thank you! I knew that was the general reaction but I wanted some of the women in the post to see that. I saw how they got demoralized. And I’ve felt that before. These are the type of people we get in ask women 🙄

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 12w

I literally “dress up” every time I leave the house. It doesn’t matter who I’m with. I love makeup and I will absolutely just do it for fun.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 12w

yeahhh i think a lot of that "you dress up to impress me" comes from a place of wanting people to be interested in them? almost some fantasy where theyre the grand prize at the end of the rainbow. it feels very much like an ego thing

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 12w

Maybe? I honestly have never even thought about it. Maybe I’m the weird one but I assume when someone dresses up they do it for themselves or for a specific occasion.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 12w

no yeah im not trying to defend it or anything i just am always interested in why behaviors or whatever occur.

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 12w

Oh no I’m not saying you are at all, that wasn’t my intention at all. I’m also curious to a certain extent on just how someone could get that idea. But in my head it’s a sense of entitlement, not necessarily ego. The idea that someone DESERVES something as a right. I believe men like OOP (not that it’s just men because it’s not) believe that they inherently deserve women’s attention. This is why if you look back you’ll see us calling him an incel. Because that’s what it boils down to.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 12w

i would agree with you, but i would also argue that entitlement inherently comes from a place of desire and need for fulfillment. the entitlement is a coping mechanism. the men that say this shit feel hopeless, and face two options; believe that they're inherently owed the love and admiration of women, or actually do something to become someone women want. one option obviously looks easier than the other, and its kinda a whole thing with delayed gratification vs instant gratification

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 12w

See I do disagree on that point. I don’t believe entitlement is a coping mechanism. I believe that it is something they believe inherently they deserve. I don’t think it’s a type of way of dealing with it. But maybe I’m wrong. Either way that’s what I imagine.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 12w

that could absolutely be true, but i just cant imagine actually believing thats true😭🙏🏽

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Anonymous seeya_space_cowboy 11w

I get what you mean. It’s hard to believe someone actually thinks that way. I am saying this as someone who grew up as a girl, there were many boys who believed they were inherently superior to me for their gender. And many girls who believed they were better because they were prettier or didn’t have this or that. Basically there are people in the world who suck and will believe they are better for no real reason.

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