
It started the past 6 months. He had been watching porn behind my back and I could tell because of how he started acting like he was in a constant porno with me. He’d say certain sexual things alluding to how he likes hurting me and that’s kind of when it clicked that no husband of mine would ever enjoy putting me in pain for his pleasure
A little clarity never hurts, I’ve seen plenty of people take more absurd statements at face value before. Clearly you’ve been hurt by your ex, and it really sucks that it happened, but that does not give you the right to hurl hate at random men. You’re unlikely to be treated with good faith if you’re coming from a place of judgement and anger