Ask Men on Yik Yak | why do some guys cheat? i’ve unknowingly been the other woman as drunk one night stand. i know two of my friends in serious relationships break up with the guy because he’s been cheating. If you have cheated before, why did you do it?

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Ask Men 14w

why do some guys cheat? i’ve unknowingly been the other woman as drunk one night stand. i know two of my friends in serious relationships break up with the guy because he’s been cheating. If you have cheated before, why did you do it?

Anonymous 14w

Why do women cheat?

Anonymous 14w

Asked my friend who cheated before and he just said idk. He allegedly has like 50 bodies so i think he was just horny and not thinking

Anonymous 14w

I mean, most men who don’t cheat try to surround themselves with men who at least understand cheating is wrong

Anonymous 14w

My personal experience is that I’ve only ever cheated once, most guys I know that cheat consistently are just greedy and even if they already have a girl they want more and don’t have respect for their significant other, mine was because I wanted to know how cheating felt since I’d never experienced it. I’m not with her anymore btw so that’s not really a thing anymore

Anonymous 14w

cheating is a multi layered thing. people do it for many different reasons but i’d say the most common reason men cheat in through dissatisfaction in their relationship. most guys would rather sit through the pain of a relationship rather than end it so in order to cope, they look outward and seek other sexual or whatever interests they are lacking in other women. I have cheated personally and i regret it. my reasons were mostly due to me not trusting my partner due to things she’s done so i

Anonymous 14w

Why does anyone cheat? The reasons might vary a little from gender to gender but I feel like ultimately it comes down to morals and maturity

Anonymous 14w

I don’t cheat because I’ve never been in a relationship and that’s not uncommon for a lot of guys these days

Anonymous

#2 14w

Can you explain more why you wanted to know what cheating felt like

Anonymous

#3 14w

Well at the time I did it I really wanted to try things I hadn’t done before and I know cheating is a thing that could affect you heavily and I was something of an experience junkie at the time if that makes sense, I still loved my girlfriend the whole time, it was like trying a new food or going to a place you’ve never been. There was no feelings involved and it wasn’t a great experience so I never did it again

Anonymous

#4 14w

idk the women i surround myself with we don’t believe in infidelity

Anonymous

#2 14w

That seems insane to do

Anonymous

#7 14w

Well I wasn’t exactly in an incredible mental state at the time, so I would say it was slightly insane to do. I was just answering the question they asked me

Anonymous

#2 14w

How did you feel about the potential impact on your gf?

Anonymous

#3 14w

Well as I stated I was a little off the rails at the time and I would’ve rathered she just didn’t find out but if she did I would get to see how a betrayal like that would affect someone which would’ve been a new experience I wanted to have and I would’ve then cut my losses. Again this is not how I am now, I was really not well at the time

Anonymous

#4 14w

I cheated once because i told my boyfriend I was breaking up with him and he said “no you arent” and then i just decided from then on to be single no matter what HE called us

Anonymous

#8 14w

(To be single and getting laid in a way i enjoyed and to be way happier lul)

Anonymous

#8 14w

(Also we were not living together so i just told him “yuh huh” and he was like “nuh uh” and i was like wtever and later he was like what the hell ur cheating on me?? And i was like sybau lol i gave u plenty of warning)

Anonymous

#8 14w

Lol girl that’s not cheating! Breakups don’t need to be mutual to happen

Anonymous

#2 14w

Did you care at all about her experience / feelings?

Anonymous

#3 14w

Yeah honestly I cared more about her than I had about anyone I had before, but as long as she never found out it would only ever be my problem and honestly guilt isn’t a problem I have often

Anonymous

#2 14w

Bro is lowk a scientist 🧑‍🔬 u also might be a but sociopathic tho ngl

Anonymous

#3 14w

I meaaannn i didnt block him bc we said early on in the relationship that if we broke up we’d be friends so i was still friendly to him i just kept making it clear that i didnt want him anymore like that and he was like 🙄 yeah right and i was like 🤔😋

Anonymous

#8 14w

I’ve been told that before more times than I can count honestly so I might have to start believing it soon

Anonymous

#2 14w

😧 youve been told this irl? Pls seek a therapist (obv ur not a murderer or serial cheater but you prob have some good work to do lul)

Anonymous

#8 14w

Yeah I’ve also thought about doing that but it’s too much work so I’ve kinda just decided to live with it, it has its own positives in a way

Anonymous

#2 14w

Yeah and its expensive and it feels like its not even doing anything for the longest time… i just watch Tony Soprano’s therapy sessions and im like damn im alright lol

Anonymous

#9 14w

felt the need to i guess even the playing field by cheating. Looking back i wish i had more courage to just end things as i felt that i had betrayed myself as cheating is something i am so against and it really has changed me.