There is no shit being pulled. BEHOLD, THE VARIETY THAT DWELLS WITHIN THE FEMININE GENDER!!! That said, there’s nothing wrong with shooting your shot as long as you’re respectful. Most women worth your time who aren’t interested will politely tell you they aren’t interested. You thank them and bounce. Anyone who is harsh despite your tact probably wasn’t worth your time. GL #4 and OP. Y’all will find your people. Never settle. Seriously. Don’t settle.