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How would you describe dating as a man?
#poll
Extremely easy
Easy
Moderate
Hard
Extremely hard
138 votes
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Anonymous 13w

finding someone i actually feel a spark with is the hard part tbh

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Anonymous 13w

Depends how genetically blessed you are. Ranges from moderate to impossible

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Anonymous 13w

I cannot even begin to explain how difficult it is dating as debilitatingly shy, neurodivergent, ugly, tall, skinny, deformed (at least I can hide this part under my shirt for initial impressions), with a slightly receded hairline before I caught it and started finasteride

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Anonymous 13w

I’m 24 and I’ve never been on a date with a woman, ever. Nor have I kissed or had sex

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Anonymous 13w

I’m just above 5 feet and where I’m located you pretty much gotta be 6 foot plus and be jacked to even get noticed

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Anonymous 13w

I personally haven’t had much trouble, but I’ve also been told I’m a very attractive guy, I just don’t date much cause I don’t go out a lot, but when I’ve pursued a girl that I like, it typically works out

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Anonymous 13w

I'm a lil too ugly to rly vote

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Anonymous 13w

I don’t have a problem getting dates it’s moreso can i find someone who is willing to work things out and is interesting to me

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Anonymous 13w

I struggle with it a lot, but from what I can tell all my friends seem to be doing better than I am, most of them have girlfriends and the rest regularly go on dates, so I might be a statistical outlier. I went with moderate because, while they make it seem easy to find relationships, maintaining relationships takes a lot of work and I feel that contributes to making things more difficult.

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Anonymous 12w

It’s easy enough to get attention, but the problem pretty much everyone has is that it’s hard to get attention from the person/people you’d really like to get attention from. It feels impossible to win at dating because the more attention you get, the less you appreciate it

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Anonymous 12w

Found my gf dating now for two years known her for 5 so far

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

If a girl pursues you does that usually work out/ would you give her more of a chance despite not initially liking her?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

I’m always willing to hear someone out if they approach me, but since I’m not just out at places a lot it doesn’t happen too often

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 13w

This right here

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13w

the worst part is its never something wrong with either one of us its just that there's genuinely no like "oh i like this person a lot" moment

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