Anonymous OP 3w

-gonna get promise rings. I’m so incredible confused by this, does any man here know why we would breakup, for a reason I literally had no idea was coming? Even his best friend who I know didn’t know until literally two hours before, which I think is strange that he didn’t know about him feeling ‘off’ for a MONTH, so I’m just confused

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Anonymous #1 3w

We weren’t planning on actually getting them until Thanksgiving, but yeah 😭 i really wish there WAS more but there isn’t it was so weird, and he kept on saying ‘it wasn’t me’ that made him want to breakup, but when I asked if he cheated he said ‘no that’s immature i would never’, so there’s like genuinely no good reason for the breakup

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Anonymous amethyst_bacon 3w

that’s what my best friend’s boyfriend said, like i don’t meant to sound conceited but we were really good for each other and all of this happened so out of the blue

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Anonymous OP 3w

Well, considering he’s been feeling that way for a month it sounds like it’s been on his mind for a while for whatever reason. You could be totally right and he agrees that yall were really good for each other but whatever was going on in his mind or internally was stronger in the end

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Anonymous #3 3w

we’re both 19, yrs we’re young and we didn’t date long, but there was a good relationship foundation there that u feel like he just gave up on

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Anonymous OP 3w

Sometimes there isn’t a “good” reason for a breakup. Sometimes it really is as simple as someone changing their mind, or losing feelings. Maybe you guys rushed into things and he doesn’t feel like he’s ready for those commitments.

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Anonymous #4 3w

and that’s fine, i just wish he would’ve told me that, instead of him chasing me for months KNOWING we would be long distance and have a serious relationship, it’s like he made it seem like we were on the same page but i guess not

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Anonymous OP 3w

That timeline is kind of crazy and he was probably freaked out by rushing things. For real, if you were already making plans to move across the country for someone you’ve only been dating a couple months, that’s waaay too early.

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Anonymous #5 3w

It was kinda fast, which I didn’t want to rush into the relationship since my last one that was six months amounted to nothing, but he was the one who proposed i move, we get married within a year, etc. so I felt like we were both on the same page commitment wise

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yall are pretty young for that imo. The brain isn’t mostly developed until you’re 25

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Anonymous #3 3w

yeah definitely, but like for me i see us being young as us developing and growing together yknow?

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