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So I met this guy last Friday, we had a great time spent the night at his house but nothing happened not even a kiss. He gave me his hoodie so he has an excuse to see me again and we were supposed to have a date on Sunday but he canceled. I see him at the
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Anonymous 6w

Sounds like he’s taking it slow and isn’t a big texter, which is pretty similar to me so guys like that do exist

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Anonymous 6w

Bar yesterday and he calls/waves me over with all of his friends (mind you he had told me he was working late so he wouldn’t be at this bar) he tells me that they decided to come out anyway and he just wanted to say hi and whatnot then lets me get back to my friends.

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Anonymous 6w

Some guys don’t know you should text multiple times a day (if that’s what you would prefer). It could be that, or he just wants his hoodie back. If you would like to communicate more you can mention that next time

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Anonymous 6w

Giving a girl your hoodie is crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I say bye to him before I leave and he tries to loosely reschedule the date for next week and makes me pinky promise on it. He says he still has to get his hoodie back bc it’s his fav and I asked him why he gave me his fav he said cause I’m his fav person.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

We haven’t really been texting at all, we’ll reference inside jokes in texts but they are like once per day if that and idk if he’s really interested and is just taking things slow or if I’m just getting strung along cause ik it’s still early I’m just traumatized. He’s so warm in person but otherwise it’s like radio silence

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Also if you read all this you’re a G

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Ok thank you so much for taking the time to respond and read all that. It was kind of what I was assuming but I just wanted to see cause some of my guy friends were like if they really wanted to see you they would be talking to you and setting stuff up and I was like what if they want to take things slow 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

If he just wanted his hoodie back then why would he make me pinky promise him for a date?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Hmmm that’s a good point

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Well thank you for your input! I really appreciate it!!

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Anonymous 5w

That shit is expensive and mine

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I asked him if he was sure he wanted me to keep it and he said yeah it gives me an excuse to see you again so it’s not like I was just taking it, he wanted me to have it

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