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I’ve always wondered, when you go on a date with a girl, are you ever scared she might do something to you? Like rob you or something? Lead you down a dark alley where some dudes will mug you? Men seem fearless to me. The ones on dating apps anyway.
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Anonymous 7w

I got license to carry and box so no I’m not scared.

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Anonymous 7w

Well for the most part, we’re smart or in the worst case scenario are ready for a fight.

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Anonymous 7w

Yes we are. BUT usually our own fear is kindof a secondary concern because we’re focused on what we can do to make her comfortable and gauging how anxious she seems to be (which is usually a much more immediate threshold problem). But when a woman is giving nursery signs or does ask me to meet her somewhere iffy I stay on my guard and don’t carry much cash or any more organs than absolutely necessary

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah it’s always on my mind where are the exits whos been lookin this whole time can I bring my gun with me or do I needa fight

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Anonymous 7w

i recognize the risks but theres even a risk of getting cancer from the sir we breathe, but if we let fear control our lives we wont be able to truly live our life

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Anonymous 7w

Worst case scenario she stands u up that’s abt it

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Anonymous 7w

Well I'm cautious but I don't expect them to

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Anonymous 7w

I think a lot of us are privileged to not have the same level of risk and need for concern around this as many women have.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

And it’s like why would I date that type of chick who’s sus in anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Wait you need a license to box?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

You misunderstand me. I’m not implying you’d go on a date with a sketchy homeless looking woman with shifty eyes and long yellow toenails. I’m talking about a date you’d never expect. A high caliber baddie with a hot body and surprisingly humble but enticing personality.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Ready to fight? Even on a nice unassuming date? Your guard never lowers in the presence of someone you’ve given at least a modicum of trust to show up in person?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 7w
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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 7w

You do realize every state has their own set of rules right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I thought you meant like in a personal capacity same as license to carry, not a competition setting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

That sounds like general awareness. I’m talking about the person you’re on the date with. Do you ever feel wary of her specifically?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

You’re assuming we have to have a modicum of trust in her in order to show up to a date. We don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Never let your guard down. I grew up in the city and learned that from a very young age.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Yeah it’s each date cuz if she trynna set me up I needa know if I gotta fight or shoot my way out of a situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Realest shit

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