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Ask Men 11w
is it normal for a guy to go hours without responding if he’s into you?
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Anonymous 11w

Yes. If he has any sort of life outside of you then yes that is perfectly normal.

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Anonymous 11w

I sure hope so, some people have jobs

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Anonymous 10w

No, people they like you will find time to talk to you. He might not be that interested. I’m sorry coming from experience.

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Anonymous 11w

I work 8 hour shifts and only check my phone during my breaks, so it jus depends ig

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Anonymous 11w

Depends if he has a job or is doing a hobby. He would probably let u know if he is gonna do something for a bit tho

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Anonymous 10w

Yes

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Anonymous 10w

As a guy with 3 jobs and a huge crush, yes.

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Anonymous 10w

Yes, to an extent

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Anonymous 10w

It can happen. Sometimes I get just overwhelmed and just don’t pay attention. I will always text back and apologize if it was a while afterwards. If it’s consistant as hell tho then be careful

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Second. I do this sometimes…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

Like I respond when I can but if I’m busy or at work, then usually I do not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10w

elaborate?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

My adhd ass forgets to check my texts all the time and was TERRIBLE about this, especially when I get really focused on something. My current girlfriend kept getting frustrated by my slow response time so I started to put more effort to reply in a more timely manner. In summary: rn it’s fine, but if you ask him to start responding more often and he doesn’t, THEN it’s a bigger red flag. Either way, consistently taking more than like 2-3 hours to respond is a little troubling

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