Ask Men on Yik Yak | My bf gets kind of jealous but also insists that I dress up all the time. I can only control what I can control. If some guy approaches me to tell me I look good, I say thank you and move on but he gets upset. If I dress down, he gets upset. Help!

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My bf gets kind of jealous but also insists that I dress up all the time. I can only control what I can control. If some guy approaches me to tell me I look good, I say thank you and move on but he gets upset. If I dress down, he gets upset. Help!

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Anonymous 11w

He sounds controlling. I’d break up before it escalates.

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Anonymous 11w

Communicate your frustration with him

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Anonymous

#4 11w

I always do. It turns into an argument.

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OP 11w

Assess how you’re approaching the argument, and if you can’t find any significant flaws there, reassess your relationship as a whole

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Anonymous

#4 11w

Plus arguments aren’t intrinsically bad, only when they’re unproductive/immature is it a problem

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