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289 upvotes, 59 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Ask Men.

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Anonymous 1w

“Like a rapist” and she’s half fucking naked on Halloween

Anonymous 1w

This looks like some shit that belongs in “Ask Women”

Anonymous 1w

for all the men pissed off by this, if you did more to dismantle rape culture amongst yourself and your friends you wouldn’t be confronted by stuff like this so often and you also likely wouldn’t take so much offense, just some food for thought if it weren’t such a big and harmful issue, women wouldn’t be screaming from the rooftops all the time

Anonymous 1w

If ur offended, ur the issue.

Anonymous 1w

Every man in my inner circle desires to kill the rapists so they don’t multiply (similar to common law or abrahamic law) it’s about 50/50 right now on women who desire to return to the death penalty for rape.

Anonymous 1w

Given that the bar is in hell, I'm gonna start with asking people to not literally BE rapists

Anonymous 1w

People are free to present themselves however they want. Presentation communicates intent and values. Others will interpret those signals. Interpretation is not entitlement. And a signal does not define a person’s total worth or character. Does that mean you should do it? No, but who gives a shit. If I kick a rock down a mountain I should be aware that an avalanche may occur. Same premise here. Dress immodestly….im gonna get ogled at

Anonymous 1w

wtf is this shit

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Anonymous 1w

Oh boy I love being the involuntary recipient of anger meant for another person

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Anonymous 1w

Both could be true simultaneously. Also, why is the assumption a man made the slut comment? Is it somehow better if it was made by a woman. Why?

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Anonymous 1w

She’s dressed like a slut

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Anonymous

#1 1w

As a woman who works at a golf course, the things I hear the men say about women (even married men) is repulsive and it’s always “okay” because she wasn’t interested, she had a bf, she gave a look that “lead him on”, she left early than when he wanted, it goes on. I’m not saying it’s every man that golfs at my job but it’s about 30% of them who openly talk sickening things about women and some have even said “I should’ve raped her”

Anonymous

#2 1w

i should’ve is INSANE work.

Anonymous

#2 1w

I don’t doubt any of that. Still wondering however about my initial questions.

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Anonymous

#1 1w

also as a woman, i didnt initially get how it was assumed that it was a man making the comment but im guessing that you said that because its in the "ask men" community or whatever (which makes sense). i dont think its "fair" but i think its reasonable to assume that to some extent is it somehow better if a woman "made" it (im assuming you meant "thought it" or something along those lines)? No, absolutely not. whatever the case is, who's doing the shaming, slut shaming generally isnt good-

Anonymous

#4 1w

it hurts women either way, and thats bad. from what i know and my lived experience, when men slut-shame women or call them slutty, it's because they find the outfit hard to look away from or see the girl in a sexual light, no matter what shes wearing. However, when i see women slut-shame women, it's usually to compare them to themselves because of internalized misogyny or other factors that theyve had to live through, so its kind of a way to deflect that trauma that comes with being a woman-

Anonymous

#4 1w

obviously thats not true for everyone, thats just my experience with it and everything sees things differently and goes through different things. even with men, its unfortunate but sometimes theyre taught that slut-shaming is just another thing thats OK to do, whether they believe their words or not

Anonymous

#4 1w

ma’am take your monologues back to ask women

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Anonymous

#2 1w

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Anonymous

#5 1w

you need help

Anonymous

OP 1w

why because i answered your dumbass question?

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Anonymous

#5 1w

no because you are a misogynist and seem to have some kind of aggression issues❤️

Anonymous

OP 1w

what makes me a misogynist? you don’t know anything about me and i haven’t taken any interactions on this thread seriously because it’s stupid

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Anonymous

#5 1w

you are also stupid❤️

Anonymous

OP 1w

lmao cat got your tongue? playground comebacks for the win

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Anonymous

#5 1w

also don’t get me wrong i love sluts, meaning no disrespect people can dress how they want but if i’m showing some skin I know what territory that comes with

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Anonymous

#5 1w

and what is the "territory that comes with"

Anonymous

#7 1w

and that sill doesnt justify reducing her to an object!

Anonymous

#7 1w

And? Men wear nothing but swim trunks to the beach. Half naked. Does that make him a slut? Wow! No it doesn’t. So shut up.

Anonymous

OP 1w

having your exposed flesh perceived by the public eye unless you exist in a bubble

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Anonymous

#8 1w

trunks no, speedo yeah

Anonymous

#8 1w

Do you not get how men’s clothes and women’s clothes are fundamentally different? We all know what dressing like a slut is. You know if you’re dressed like one before you ever leave to go out. If you’re fine with it, cool. But you can’t be pissed off about it if other people judge it a certain way. Basically, if you don’t want people looking at it, don’t put it on your front porch.

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Anonymous

#1 1w

ok so explain in detail why mens and womens clothes are fundamentally different

Anonymous

#5 1w

ok and what is wrong with having your explosed flesh percieved by the public eye💀

Anonymous

#8 1w

Dumbass they’re fucking swimming? Stop being sensitive and thinking everyone is a a rapist

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Anonymous

OP 1w

Same exact fucking argument could be made for objectifying men as rapists

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Anonymous

OP 1w

as i said earlier literally nothing lol we’re arguing about nothing

Anonymous

#7 1w

men causing harm to women ≠ women dressing how YOU percieve to be "slutty"

Anonymous

OP 1w

what does harm have to do with anything I brought up? Are you ok?

Anonymous

#5 1w

rape and rape culture harms women, believe it or not.

Anonymous

OP 1w

i never said it didn’t? why are you just spewing rhetoric at me?

Anonymous

#5 1w

you compared this to "objectifying men as rapists" (which brw leads me to think you dont really understand objectification but i digress)

Anonymous

#10 1w

a social media post is not targeting you❤️

Anonymous

OP 1w

Using quotations on something I didn’t say is bat shit crazy this is not worth discussing anymore

Anonymous

#5 1w

oh truly my bad the colors on my phone for you and #7 are nearly identical I didnt notice. my apologies.

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Anonymous

#5 1w

I wouldn’t give much stock into this tbh dude. Op is delusional. A slut is gonna slut. A modest person is gonna be modest. End of story call it how you see it and move on. The original image is meant to shame anyone who thinks someone else is being inconsiderate with their wardrobe choices and does not invite discussion on the matter. And quite frankly….who gives a flying fuck lmao

Anonymous

OP 1w

This post was completely unprompted by anything any of us posted in this forum, yet your post was targeted at this forum, because you posted it in this forum.

Anonymous

#5 1w

Just know u a fat bitch always u guys

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Anonymous

basedgigatruecel 1w

why would i ask women this question

Anonymous

#7 1w

what

Anonymous

#11 1w

you missed the point

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Anonymous

#11 1w

"inconsiderate with their wardrobe choices" does the miniskirt really distress you so?

Anonymous

#10 1w

this is an incredibly soft response

Anonymous

OP 1w

It was an accurate response. You seem hell bent on wanting to control how people respond to your post. Which is ironic, given that you’re criticizing how someone might respond to someone dressing a certain way. You’re a hypocrite.

Anonymous

#7 1w

Men are rapist. Statistically. It’s not objectifying them. Most are.

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Anonymous

#8 1w

MOST are??? What an absolute load of shit.

Anonymous

#1 1w

8 is restarted just ignore its bait and if it’s not it’s mental illness

Anonymous

OP 1w

Oh no I added the nuance the sign misses. Nice try tho

Anonymous

#8 1w

Fat bitch detected