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Ask Men 11w
me and this guy met in 2022, its now 2025.. we were talking but then was kinda and on n off ( extremely messy ) but i feel like we kinda always find a way back to each other ? like ? even when the door is closed it’s still kinda open what does that mean
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Anonymous 11w

wtf are you my situationship, same timeline and shit, but regardless- if you wanna talk abt it/possibly get perspective from the guys side send a dm. I see what the other commenters are saying but me and my ex/situation were extremely messy and recently started talking again. Sorta feels like at this point we’re just scared of really trying because then things could end for real

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Anonymous 11w

Either you or he isn’t serious. Seems like you are so he probably isn’t. Clearly more time isn’t helping your case. I’d just move on from this guy romantically speaking (or completely if you can’t see him in any other way). This is coming from someone who was in this exact situation numerous, NUMEROUS times.

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Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 11w

And being blunt, if BOTH of you were serious, it wouldn’t take 3 fucking years. Especially if you’ve up and told this guy that you’re interested in him and want a committed, romantic relationship with him.

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Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 11w

To bounce off of this I also think you both are trying to cling onto this..."situationship" because it's familiar and thus, comfortable for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

like i gave kind zero lore, but like idk i feel like in some way we are connected unless im crazy but its LD and we did talk for a little bit but he was dumb n played in my face and even if its not romantic i feel like we could be good friends ? unless im the dumb one

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

like it was definitely a situationship but it’s LD.. but like idk i feel like we kinda fit even if it’s not romantic even platonic but when we were “talking” it was actually quite bad ngl but even still the door was always kinda open on both sides

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Then be friends. But don’t pursue bro romantically. At best, you’re being super wishful and at worst, he’s fucking with you and your peace. Move on from him. Or at the very, VERY MOST. If you wanna be a masochist. Ask him out, try and get a specific date and time. If he cannot do that, THAT IS YOUR SIGN THAT HE AINT SERIOUS.

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