Punished more society for being vulnerable

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Part of it is taught, part of it is natural. Showing a lot of emotion feels childish to me

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Don’t want to come off as desperate and being vulnerable gets you laughed at

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Either they don’t give a fuck bout you or it’s part of societies socialization of men to be stoic and non expressive.

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The psychology is that we’ve each been emotionally tortured into it. He used to be chalant, but the last time he let himself care (or show he cared), a girl he loved burned it into every synapse never to let himself be hurt that way again. Trust me, for what it’s worth whatever guy you’re wondering this about is far more upset about it than you are But if you want a fresh guy of your own to ruin, you gotta find one that hasn’t had much dating experience. Happy hunting, I guess😬

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