Ask Men on Yik Yak | I’ve been hanging out w a guy occasionally for a while now but we’ve never actually done anything—I told him at the start I wanna take things slow but he’s just never made a move since & now I’m always scared wondering when/if it’s coming.. any advice?

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Ask Men 1w

I’ve been hanging out w a guy occasionally for a while now but we’ve never actually done anything—I told him at the start I wanna take things slow but he’s just never made a move since & now I’m always scared wondering when/if it’s coming.. any advice?

Anonymous 1w

You told him to wait on making a move. You have to make the first move now most likely because he doesn’t want to cross that line and make you feel unsafe/ uncomfortable

Anonymous 1w

He’s probably just trying to be respectful and let you initiate things at the pace you feel comfortable with.

Anonymous 1w

lol he’s not gonna make a move if u told him u wanted to take things slow

Anonymous 1w

Sooooo… you need to make a move…

Anonymous 1w

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#2 1w

I mean when we talked abt that I told him I was not comfortable initiating things that’s kinda why we had the conversation but idk maybe that got in his head?

Anonymous

OP 1w

“Don’t initiate things right now but when the time comes you’re going to have to initiate things” is how he took it. He has no clue when that time is you gotta give him a hint or something 😭