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why is body count so important for men when it comes to choosing women to date?
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Anonymous 3w

The number premarital sex partners a person has VERY significantly increases the chances of future divorce/breakup, cheating, unhappy/unsatisfactory marriages/relationships, STD infection, ect. This is very strong statistical fact that is robust to all control variables such as religious background.

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Anonymous 3w

Women have an interest in a man’s future for her sake (valid), while men have an interest in a woman’s past for his sake (also valid)

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Anonymous 3w

I don’t like the idea of sticking my dick in the same hole Johnny Sins and 784 other guys have been in first. Also it says something about their character

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Anonymous 3w

I see sex as something very intimate that I don’t want to do with someone I don’t love. I want to be with a woman who holds that same value. If a woman has a high body count, she is very unlikely to share that value with me. TLDR it’s a compatibility measure for me

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Anonymous 2w

I personally am wanting to be with someone who has a body count of 0. For religious reasons, I have a body count of 0 (yes that includes oral, fingering, etc. I have had no sexual contact with another human ever) and I would want to be with someone who is equally as or more religious than me. If I can keep a body count of 0 despite having advances made on me I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect my future partner to also have a body count of 0

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Anonymous 2w

I ain’t trynna get burned

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Anonymous 3w

It’s not that much

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Anonymous 3w

I don’t rly care abt it that much, im sure a lot of other guys don’t either

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

so you don’t care about a woman’s future? personally, i have high standards for a potential male partner’s past AND future, just like i do for myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

If our future is going to be shared, we as men need to know that your ability to pair-bond is not compromised, hence the body count question. If you’ve been with 10 men, what’s to stop me from believing I won’t be another notch on your belt?

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