Ask Men on Yik Yak | Got ghosted by guy I had been dating for ≈ 6wks after we tried sex and it didn’t fit. I was drunk and he was tipsy, we were fooling around and he asked if he could put it in. I said he could try but warned him it wouldn’t fit (vaginismus) no texts since

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Got ghosted by guy I had been dating for ≈ 6wks after we tried sex and it didn’t fit. I was drunk and he was tipsy, we were fooling around and he asked if he could put it in. I said he could try but warned him it wouldn’t fit (vaginismus) no texts since

Anonymous 1w

First please don’t blame yourself at all. You sound like a lovely person and do not deserve this. Second while the majority of men (at least from what I have observed) are not like this, it is definitely the most outgoing that get around, and do it often.

Anonymous 1w

Is this going to be my general experience with college guys? He had always acted like he genuinely liked me, held my hand in public, never let me open a door, cuddled through the night…Maybe for a lot of these guys that’s just the price they think they pay for transactional hookups. I’ve been working on penetration with a physical therapist but there’s gonna be times that I’m too tight, I’ll prob always need lube, I might need them to stop…Idk how/when to bring that up.

Anonymous

OP 1w

Prior to this I had NEVER done anything with someone that wasn’t a long term bf. I have two bodies and dated both for two years. Kinda feels like I fell for the oldest trick in the book :/

Anonymous

#1 1w

But you should bring it up before you have sex with anyone, as imo sex is something you need almost complete trust/vulnerability with to have a good time