Yik Yak logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
Ask Men icon
Ask Men 10w
what’s the best way to meet and get to know a guy?? like is starting up a conversation in classes or at a football/basketball game weird?? i always feel like it’ll just stay an in the moment thing and never really progress
comment

19
upvote 12 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 10w

what you’re describing goes against the traditional social norms that many still operate under. that being said, fuck tradition, and any man worth his salt will be glad to have you talk to him. whether or not that will progress will be entirely dependent on how you personally would approach that situation and then also how he would react. then you’ll hopefully have a natural game of conversational tennis and learn more about each other, enough for each of you to draw a conclusion regarding your

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 10w

No, it’s definitely not weird! As far as making things progress, maybe ask for their number after the convo and then ask them out?

upvote 7 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 10w

Talking to them in class should work. If you or them wanna continue, then try and do like a study group or ask them to get coffee with them. Many guys will be shocked and flattered by this. You might get rejections, but that’s just part of it.

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 10w

Absolutely! That’s a great idea! You can also casually ask them to hang out. May be eat lunch together or go to the library and do hw after class.

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

feelings. then, if one or both of you thinks you’re interested romantically, make your intentions clear. asking them out is likely the most direct, giving them a number is a good passive way to imply interest, can’t think of other examples off the top of my head that aren’t super vague and potentially confusing to someone you’re trying to express romantic interest towards

upvote 3 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

“Worth his salt” I’m stealing that fn

post
upvote 6 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous 10w

Bro what

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

ooo love the study group idea

upvote 7 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

ahh love this sm, thanks for the advice!

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

smart smart

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #7 10w

i do spend a lot of time in the lib 😗

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Also, make it obvious you’re flirting with them. Depending on the guy, they may or may not be dense as lead. You gotta make it obvious

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I may or may not have been said dependent guy freshman year…

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

hahah okay noted!

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

dense as lead is killing me 😭

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Yeah FR men can’t catch a hint to save their lives! 😂😂😂😂

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #7 10w

I know. We try, but… yeah

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

And it’s bad cause there has been one time where I was really lot interested in a girl so I played dumb but when I have a remote interest and flirting happens, all awareness of whether or not I’m getting flirted with goes out the window

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Then you should know a spot where you both can sit and do work together. May be even walk by a coffee place before and get coffee in the way

upvote 2 downvote