In my experience it’s the opposite

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I don’t think guys in general prefer or value hookups to relationships it’s just that they don’t experience the emotional downsides of hooking up as much as women.

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I think most people that are actively looking or approaching are looking for hookups or short term. That said, I think most people in general want something more fulfilling, but aren’t necessarily looking as actively

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Well, if that were true (as I used to assume too) I’m sure it would be for the obvious reasons since it makes far more sense on both ends And yet, in my observation the wheel has kinda turned the other way. I’ve had FAR more success doing low-effort hit & quit stuff than actual dating lately. Women got commitment issues that make ours look like nothing. Even if they say they want a relationship or real date, it icks them out more reliably than a netflix&chill

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In my experience most folks want to be loved but don't know how

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Are you bi?

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In my experience girls wanna hook up far more than they wanna date

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That's a totally fair generalization

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