Ask Men on Yik Yak | Do you think that hiding being pregnant from a guy and getting an abortion without telling him you are pregnant are the same thing? (This is a hypothetical question I’m not going thru this rn)

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Ask Men 8w

Do you think that hiding being pregnant from a guy and getting an abortion without telling him you are pregnant are the same thing? (This is a hypothetical question I’m not going thru this rn)

Anonymous 8w

For starters, honesty is always the best policy. Second, I personally believe that abortion is wrong, but so is lying about pregnancy.

Anonymous 8w

if a woman doesnt want to be pregnant, she should get an abortion. period

Anonymous 8w

To more precisely answer the question: no, those are not the same thing

Anonymous 8w

The guilt I'd have from her having an abortion would ruin me. I'd probably turn to celibacy

Anonymous 8w

Definitely not the same. One scenario doesn’t take away his opportunity to be a father

Anonymous

#3 8w

in the best case scenario, she would be open and tell her partner, but things dont always go so smoothly. at the end of the day its her body her choice, and its not morally wrong for a woman to terminate a pregnancy if she doesnt want to be pregnant anymore

Anonymous

#3 8w

ooops this is ask men. im a woman 💀💀my bad

Anonymous

#3 8w

Nah you’re good, no worries. This isn’t GirlTalk, we don’t attack the opposite gender just for commenting here. But anyway yea I agree with your original statements

Anonymous

#4 8w

Girl talk does have that in their rules though while here doesn’t

Anonymous

#3 8w

I’m not a man but I 100% agree with you.

Anonymous

#3 8w

Well yes, but that wasn’t really the question

Anonymous

#1 8w

oops i misread. yeah its not the same thing, but in every scenario a woman should be able to abort, with or without the mans involvement

Anonymous

#3 8w

Yeah but a woman can carry a pregnancy through without a man’s involvement as well. It’s not really a question of whether or not they CAN do it if they want. It’s about if both types of deceit are comparable, and why or why not

Anonymous

#4 8w

Nah, get her!

Anonymous

#4 8w

Its kind of an A vs A+B question.

Anonymous

#5 8w

Fair point, but the aggression with which I’ve seen folks get attacked in there is not at all justified. Especially that this is YikYak and most people just scroll through their FYP without realizing which “community” they’re on. (For example, #3, who didn’t realize that this was “AskMen”)