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Freshman girl, no experience with guys. I’m interested in a long term relationship in college but scared of the hookup culture. Is it really too much to ask that he’s a virgin or someone with little experience like me? Do guys really just like to hookup?
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Anonymous 3w

There’s a bunch of virgins in college. Plenty of guys want the same thing that you do they’re just the shy ones. The ones you’re going to meet usually are the ones with experience. There are also guys with experience that aren’t sluts and want long term relationships

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Anonymous 3w

Why is being unexpierienced such a ‘Distatsteful thing’

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Anonymous 3w

Every guy the girl wants is hooking up with every girl.

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Anonymous 3w

You want love. So do guys! Best approach is to find a group of friends. Maybe even a club/org. Find common interests. Let something happen. And your standards are fine- but don’t let some set rule in your head disqualify someone with a past who has learned from their mistakes.

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Anonymous 3w

No, no, enforce your boundaries and standards

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Anonymous 3w

No it’s not, and no. I won’t say it won’t be harder to find, but I’m waiting for marriage along with my beautiful girlfriend

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Anonymous 3w

Some guys do some guys don't, Real advise: Stick to men you see frequently for extended periods of time and are familiar with via clubs, church, or a friend group, etc. Never use a dating app. Yes you can and should be aware of a man's relationship history BEFORE officially dating, ask if you must. Be patient, society is broken and good men are hard to find but defiantly not impossible.

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Anonymous 3w

Maybe you’ll be lucky and find one whos ur type who’s never done anything. But that’s unlikely

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Anonymous 3w

They all want sex don’t trust any guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Get a grip

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I’m virgin as well and I want the same w my man. No it’s not too much nd it’s having standards and values. There is a man who is the same out there so don’t stress and let life guide u in finding him

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Pineapple go to hell

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Suck balls lil guy

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