Ask Men on Yik Yak | Okay, I’m gonna ask this and you’re not going to ask questions or judge me. Okay? Good. There is a very shy guy I know that I truly just want to get in his pants and that’s it. How do I make this happen and still be a lady about it? He seems clueless.

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Ask Men 4w

Okay, I’m gonna ask this and you’re not going to ask questions or judge me. Okay? Good. There is a very shy guy I know that I truly just want to get in his pants and that’s it. How do I make this happen and still be a lady about it? He seems clueless.

Anonymous 4w

Tell him straight up

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Anonymous 4w

Assuming you are friends you already know if he has the moral flexibility if he does. If he does then I’d say just start to get more touchy with him when hanging out bc if he’s quite that probably doesn’t happen to much. Bro might go feral if it’s been awhile too. Then just start saying flirty things. Maybe just like seduce the fuck outta him alone idk. Men are generally pretty down to fuck so like, shouldn’t be all that hard fam

Anonymous 4w

Leave him be, he’s not interested

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Anonymous 4w

Anything except just telling him huh?

Anonymous 4w

You gonna hurt him 😭

Anonymous 4w

Jus tell him u wanna link

Anonymous 4w

Tell him you wanna hang out with him and that you find him attractive

Anonymous

bobthebuilt 4w

It shouldn’t. Yet somehow he is not picking up hints. I’ll invite him over for coffee and he’s like “Oh I don’t like coffee.” Bruh. No one wants coffee at like 8pm. I’m trying to get you over here!

Anonymous

#1 4w

I might end up just telling him. He is slow on the up take frfr

Anonymous

#3 4w

The way I’m gonna fuck this man… yeah he’s not gonna be the same.

Anonymous

#4 4w

I didn’t want to just tell him. I wanted him to figure it out on his own. Or at least feel like he figured it out on his own. At this point I need a flashing neon sign.

Anonymous

OP 4w

God I need someone like you

Anonymous

OP 4w

Can’t really blame him. This never happens to quiet guys

Anonymous

#1 4w

I mean I guess I get it. I would have preferred he figured it out on his own. I just feel like I keep setting him up and it sails over his head and that’s frustrating.

Anonymous

OP 4w

Why do yall insist on hint dropping? If you want him to know then why not just… tell him?

Anonymous

OP 4w

U will know if u ask

Anonymous

#1 4w

It just feels better when it’s HIS idea. It’s not a requirement but I like to feel dainty and feminine about the whole thing but at this point I’m feral for it and he’s not making it easy to create optimal conditions.

Anonymous

#6 4w

Now, that’s entirely possible.

Anonymous

OP 4w

I’m sure it does but it doesn’t always work like that. You’re both adults and since you’re the one who wants it so bad it probably has to be you making the move

Anonymous

#1 4w

I’m not saying I’m opposed to it. I’m just stating why I’m frustrated.

Anonymous

#1 4w

Feminine ego. She wants it, but she needs him to be the one who wants it because it that puts her in a position of leverage over him to say yes or no to him. If she asks, then she’s in the position of weakness and he’s the one with deciding power. This is how female power dynamics work.

Anonymous

#6 4w

This guy knows what he’s talking about. I’m going to just give up and plainly tell him my intentions. If he says no, oh well. It’s not like he’s the only guy in the world I think is cute. 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous

OP 4w

A man not picking up on “hints”???? I’m heard of???? You gotta spell it out for him fam

Anonymous

OP 4w

Hahaha are you trying to pick up George Costanza?

Anonymous

purp_diamond 4w

Omg I’m texting him right now. Yall don’t get it fr😭

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Anonymous

OP 4w

OMG WOMAN UP AND ASK HIM TO FUCK