Ask Men on Yik Yak | if i haven’t been approached or even looked at by a man in my 18 years of life, am i doomed and chopped? bc it’s feeling like it’s OVER for me tbh

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Ask Men 7w

if i haven’t been approached or even looked at by a man in my 18 years of life, am i doomed and chopped? bc it’s feeling like it’s OVER for me tbh

Anonymous 7w

Anonymous 7w

Dawg ur only 18, give yourself some time. Go and experience life in college and meet new people

Anonymous 7w

You are probably really attractive and scare them with your aura

Anonymous

#1 7w

i’ve tried 😭😭 been out a lot and met a ton of people but all the girls i’m with get noticed by guys and i don’t and i feel like im the problem

Anonymous

OP 7w

If it’s any consolation in my whole 23 years alive I’ve been approached like once, it’s not because you’re the problem

Anonymous

inphochewated 7w

And live in a well mannered part of the world

Anonymous

inphochewated 7w

i’m from the south

Anonymous

OP 7w

Aaaaaahhhhhh… then you’re not attractive in the *conventional* sense is my best. The patriarchal, eurocentric, nigh-Aryan, One Piece woman-built way. Point lwk still stands. It’s not you and it doesn’t seem smart to move thinking it IS you. Anyone who would otherwise find you attractive (and trust me, someone out there does), is gonna be repelled by the lack of self-confidence. Or god forbid, some evil nigga will b attracted to it as they’ll see you as a prime candidate to be taken advantage of.

Anonymous

inphochewated 7w

TLDR: try your damnest to not use guys cold approaching you as a metric of your beauty. Too many factors for it to be reliable. Plus, I’ll seen people I would call unmistakeably chopped pull more people (yes, PEOPLE) than I’ve got teeth. You’re almost certainly fine.

Anonymous

OP 7w

Also, my condolences for your living situation