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if i haven’t been approached or even looked at by a man in my 18 years of life, am i doomed and chopped? bc it’s feeling like it’s OVER for me tbh
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Anonymous 1w

Dawg ur only 18, give yourself some time. Go and experience life in college and meet new people

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Anonymous 6d

How tall are you and how much do you weigh

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Anonymous 6d

You are probably really attractive and scare them with your aura

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i’ve tried 😭😭 been out a lot and met a ton of people but all the girls i’m with get noticed by guys and i don’t and i feel like im the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

If it’s any consolation in my whole 23 years alive I’ve been approached like once, it’s not because you’re the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

5’8” and 150

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Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 6d

And live in a well mannered part of the world

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Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 6d

i’m from the south

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Aaaaaahhhhhh… then you’re not attractive in the *conventional* sense is my best. The patriarchal, eurocentric, nigh-Aryan, One Piece woman-built way. Point lwk still stands. It’s not you and it doesn’t seem smart to move thinking it IS you. Anyone who would otherwise find you attractive (and trust me, someone out there does), is gonna be repelled by the lack of self-confidence. Or god forbid, some evil nigga will b attracted to it as they’ll see you as a prime candidate to be taken advantage of.

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Anonymous replying to -> inphochewated 6d

TLDR: try your damnest to not use guys cold approaching you as a metric of your beauty. Too many factors for it to be reliable. Plus, I’ll seen people I would call unmistakeably chopped pull more people (yes, PEOPLE) than I’ve got teeth. You’re almost certainly fine.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Also, my condolences for your living situation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Thats in the healthy range but leaning towards chubby. Aside from that guys our age just dont go up to girls like they used to

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