Ask Men on Yik Yak | Ok if I want to ask a guy to have sex but he's bad at responding over text, should I tell him to call me, or should I just flat out ask him over text and risk him not responding (we've already done it once and been on a date)

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Ask Men 5w

Ok if I want to ask a guy to have sex but he's bad at responding over text, should I tell him to call me, or should I just flat out ask him over text and risk him not responding (we've already done it once and been on a date)

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Anonymous 5w

Calling him is solid option, people who are shit at texting are usually a lot better abt phone calls

Anonymous 5w

Text him

Anonymous 5w

What risk? Why is there any greater or different risk of him not texting back vs not picking up the phone?

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bobthebuilt 5w

yeah he's called me once before too..

Anonymous

#1 5w

if I text him what should I say

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OP 5w

“Let’s have sex” Ngl this question literally scares me bc now I’m wondering if it’s normal for women to ask in some kind of spy code and wondering if I’ve ever missed an undetected booty call. What were you considering saying?

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#3 5w

HAHA lmao no genuinely I was thinking of texting "I think we should have sex again" but my problem was that I felt like that was too forward. I don't think a girl who actually wants to make a plan to hook up would text in spy code so I'm sure you're good

Anonymous

OP 5w

Though I texted him yesterday telling him to call me and when he did I just was honest with him. Hopefully I'll be seeing him this weekend, we'll see if he actually keeps his word tho!

Anonymous

OP 5w

Oh, no lol after you’ve actually HAD sex, acknowledging it isn’t forward in the slightest. Cat’s out of the bag. The rooster (lol) is in the hayloft; I don’t know of any guy who would see candidly talking about it as being MORE intimate than actually doing it in the first place