I’d have the conversation with him. But don’t structure it in a way like he’s doing bad but you’d like it if you tried new things if that’s better stimulation, I think it’s fine to mention that you don’t get stimulated compared to him but just the way you structure the convo. Like recommending him things to do/try that would make it more enjoyable for you.

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It’s worth having a conversation especially if there are things he can change

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Almost a year and a half without orgasming is actually crazy

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Carefully. Normally I’d say his ego is not your problem, but since it’s closely linked to bedroom performance it sort of is in this situation. You may be best served by CONSTRUCTIVE criticism: tell him specifically what you’d appreciate him doing differently or better. Some guys can handle a blunt “you’ve never made me finish” but almost any guy would be happy to take marching orders on how to make it *better* for you Side note: doesn’t he give you head? Can you get off from that even?

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Rip the bandaid. Be as gentle as you can, but rip the bandaid

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Yea a convo needs to be had, if it’s because of a lack of effort on his end, especially if he isn’t putting in the effort into you. Now if he is putting effort in, two things, he’s dog shit at him and you gotta start teaching him, can’t expect him to know what you want unless you tell him and most guys would rather you be happy and know what to do than not. Could also be you, if you are on anti depressants that messes with things. My ex was on anti depressants and couldn’t for a solid 3 months

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