Anonymous #4 6d

i agree but the post was very normal imo 😭 usually when ur in a relationship most of the time ur hangouts will consist mostly of cracking, cuddling and eating...

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Anonymous vangogh 6d

I went to his account and neither him or his gf seem to be Christian. It's just everyone in the comments telling him to "control his lust" or like making weird "why not bible study, cuddles and food?" or "lust and gluttony" and im so confused on why they r making this bold ass assumption

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Anonymous #5 6d

if you're actually abstaining from sex with he gf then yeah that would be purity culture? and besides just bc you might be abstaining doesn't mean everyone else does. it was really weird why so many people mostly men were comment on that innocent post

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Anonymous OP 6d

No, even within a relationship, it’s still fornication unless you’re married

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Anonymous #5 6d

its normal to have sex in a relationship? its not normal to abstain. thats what goes into purity culture.

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Anonymous OP 6d

Just because something is normal doesn’t make it safe or healthy.

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Anonymous OP 6d

And apparently it’s not as normal as you thought, considering so many men commented on it.

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Anonymous #5 6d

so actually there r many studies that prove that having a consistent sex life is key to a healthy relationship, and you can still practice safe sex. you shouldn't suppress your sexual urges bc that could lead to more harm than good.

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Anonymous #5 6d

its not normal hence why i asked the question, why would u date someone you wouldn't be sexual attracted too?

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Anonymous OP 6d

It’s key to a healthy marriage, but not to a healthy relationship where you can still break up. If you want to have sex so badly, just get married faster.

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Anonymous #5 6d

so getting married and having sex are two completely different things, idk if ur some weirdo morman but most people consider getting married only to have sex as a surefire way to have a bad marriage

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Anonymous OP 6d

You keep appealing to “most people” as if that’s some kind of authority lmao

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Anonymous OP 6d

Also, that’s not what I said. I didn’t say marriage was only for sex, I said sex is only for within marriage.

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Anonymous OP 6d

Besides, I’m not mormon, I’m Catholic. There are more than 1.4 billion of us.

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Anonymous #5 6d

didn't it come out that a bunch of priests were SA-ing young children specifically boys within the Catholic church?? so i rather not take sex advice from someone who follow people who condone that

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Anonymous #5 6d

No bigger SA charges than those that come out of the Catholic Church, paid out over 5 billion in settlements and that’s just the US. Certainly don’t practice what they preach

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Anonymous #3 6d

this idk why you're downvoting i've said many times the ppl who made the video were not Christians at least to my knowledge

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Anonymous #3 6d

Rates of abuse are higher among rabbis and imams, also drastically higher among public school teachers. This is FAR from unique to the Catholic Church.

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Anonymous OP 6d

Where did the Church condone SA? Pretty sure it’s a mortal sin and doing it results in you going to hell.

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Anonymous OP 6d

It’s also a mortal sin to bear false witness. Just keep that in mind.

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Anonymous #5 6d

if the the church i was attending had multiple accounts of their members committing SA, and i was aware of it and continue to go i would assume that is something that doesn't bother the individual since they are still supporting the church.

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Anonymous OP 6d

You have a fundamental misunderstanding of what makes the Church unique. You seem to think it’s just a big Bible study with candles and chants.

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Anonymous #5 6d

i'm well aware of what church is and you can actually be a Christian without being part of a congregation.

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Anonymous OP 6d

We are called to congregate in worship in both sacred scripture and sacred tradition. Christ started a visible Church. You have been lied to.

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Anonymous OP 5d

“not everything is about sex” but if the sex is bad then what? i waited like a “good and self-respecting catholic” person would do and it was fucking awful. we tried and tried and it was awful. sexual compatibility is still important. i would never wait for sex again. just something for y’all to keep in mind because just because you wait doesn’t mean the sex is gonna be good.

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Anonymous #5 5d

no i haven't, congregations come with gossip, guilt tripping, forced volunteerism and many other things that distract the members from worshipping.

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Anonymous OP 5d

Hebrews 10:24-25 literally tells us to not to neglect meeting together, and explains the benefits of doing so.

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Anonymous #8 5d

The main point of sex is not just to feel good

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Anonymous #5 5d

sex is about making love which is supposed to feel good lmao ☠️

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Anonymous #8 5d

Sex is about making children lol, not just making love

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Anonymous #5 4d

sex is just how you make children but thats not what it's about, a women doesn't even have to orgasm in order to get pregnant. which wouldn't make it enjoyable, and wanting to enjoy sex with the person you love is for the sake of just making love is fine.

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Anonymous #5 4d

sex is for BOTH love and making children. women wouldn’t have a clitoris if it were only for reproduction, its sole purpose is pleasure. that’s why sexual compatibility is important for me, if it’s not for you then okay and good luck.

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Anonymous #8 4d

its crazy that im explaining why sexual compatibility is important 😭 but i understand its hard to realize how important it is until u have sex

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Anonymous OP 4d

fr like you won’t know until you start having sex 😭😭 if you’re asexual i guess it doesn’t matter but sex can definitely be bad between couples and it ruins relationships like it did mine

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Anonymous #8 4d

yeah exactly like sexual frustration is not it

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