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Why do people get so mad when you call them out for a red flag😭 I said “having a boyfriend 24/7 and none of them lasting long term is a red flag” and she proceeded to go on a rant about how each of the relationships weren’t her fault 💀
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Anonymous 1w

I think people interpret “red flag” as a dealbreaker, when imo it is more of something to look out for/be wary of

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Anonymous 1w

i mean like if it wasn't her fault then i see why she defended herself

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Anonymous 1w

I mean you insulted them…

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Anonymous 1w

If a girl has 109 exes, is it her fault or their faults?

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Anonymous 1w

As a girl that constantly gets screwed over by men and i dont feel like i do anything wrong i kinda get it

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Anonymous 1w

from what you said i agree. if you keep having bad bf after bad bf, you either have terrible luck or you're not good at choosing the right people. ofc you can blame men's bad behavior, but it can get to a point where the woman just didn't put any effort into actually finding a good person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yeah the red flag was that, a red flag. Her response to me saying that however is definitely a dealbreaker

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yellow flag would be that for me red flag would be deal breaker

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Red flag is objectively a dealbreaker. There’s no interpretation, just like how a red light means stop.

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Anonymous replying to -> milfhunters 1w

Take time to heal bro why are we bouncing from relationship to relationship ⁉️⁉️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Because it being your fault it ended or not the fact that she had 13 boyfriends in 2 years sorta shows an individual who doesn’t heal from past relationships and just jumps to the next person to give her attention. I’m not interested in being a rental for two months.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

This isn’t about relationships..

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Anonymous replying to -> milfhunters 1w

OH MY GOD SHES BOUNCING FROM ONE TO ANOTHER ALRIGHT😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

The joke is about antisemitism. There is a white supremacist rhetoric online that states that Jews have been kicked out of 109 countries over their history. Whether or not it is true, I thought it was fitting for the situation, given my lack of knowledge.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

okay yeah 13 is a lot, but were they boyfriends or fwbs

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Does that really matter? 13 people in 2 years is just screaming commitment issues. She may be a great person but thats fs a red flag when looking for a long term partner

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

was it established that she was looking for a long term partner?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

idk man, i would've given her the benefit of the doubt. what other reasons do u have to not trust her

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

It’s not that i don’t trust her. It’s exactly as i stated before thats just a red flag

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