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Can someone explain to me why I’m being ghosted after a very enthusiastic date with someone who was talking abt making more plans?? How come guys lose interest so fast I really don’t get what could have changed
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Anonymous 11w

He probably found someone else

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Anonymous 11w

This happened to me too girl ppl r so confusing

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Anonymous 11w

Could be a lot of things honestly. Post nut clarity, PRE-nut clarity, his girl found out, he found someone else. Heck it could even be that (from his perspective) he’s not ghosting you and he just doesn’t text as regularly as you do (or as you want). What do you honestly think it is? Any idea at all? Observed any clues?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Idk if anything I felt like he was coming off a bit strong at points, suggesting a bunch of future dates. We didn’t hookup or anything and there was never an expectation that we would. Ofc maybe something totally external came up or he lost all interest quickly and weirdly enough. I’m pretty confused

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Cowardly manwhore moment 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

‘Never an expectation that we would’? Did he share that (lack of) expectation? And how never is never? Cause if that was information he learned over the course of the date, it may be your answer. Of course I wasn’t there, but in general remember that we put in effort when we have hope

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