
For me at least: when I did this it was bc I thought I could just brute force the attraction since there were other things I liked abt them. Eventually I realized it didn’t work for me & was wasting the other person’s time so I stopped doing that. Was immature and learning, also thought rejecting someone without giving them a shot was being mean or something. There have been some women who are great fun ppl I respect, but just didn’t have any physical attraction for. Sry if this happened to you