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is it true when a girl doesn’t ask a guy for anything/doesnt want anything from him, it makes him want to give it to her more?
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Anonymous 1w

As a probably minority autistic fella: if a girl is not asking me for things, I will likely never think to give them to her. I think the big distinction is expectation - if you obviously expect me to bend over backwards for you, that’s gonna make me resent you, but if it’s clear that you just want me and other things might be a nice add, I’ll climb mountains and raze nations for your gain

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Anonymous 1w

yes, when a girl isn't demanding i want to give her more. i love when a person is humble and i want to treat her better bc of it

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Anonymous 1w

Not really I would probably become disinterested

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Anonymous 1w

Like material things/money? Yes, absolutely true

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Anonymous 1w

Not necessarily. It would make me think/feel like you’re not interested.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

because she isn’t asking for things?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I mean if she isn’t really putting in effort/not wanting dates or stuff then I would lose interest

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

no i mean like she’s not asking you for gifts like clothes, jewelry, spoiling her, etc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Oh I see. I mean that’s great but I would also like to be able to do something yk? Like maybe a small craft gift or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

Minorly*

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