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It really amazes me how my buddy still thinks that virginity is a trump card over any situation with women…we’re 22 and when we go out he 1. Has to “get sum’” or his night was a waste or 2. When he’s talking a girl he still asks for their Snapchat…⬇️
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Anonymous 1w

And I told him like dude at 22 asking for a snap is a turn off and he’s like OK virgin go get some and then talk…like he thinks that having sex is the epitome of manhood when in reality he’s gonna have a rough time finding anything at a actual club or bar that’s not in a college town. Does this relate to anyone? Or can anyone give some advice?

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Anonymous 1w

Honestly… I’d say you need new friends personally. Your friend clearly hasn’t matured yet at all, and that’s ONE thing, but him feeling superior to you and putting you down?? Not good friend material. It sounds like you can do much better. Find someone with the same values and mindset as you! ☺️ they’re out there! He’s a lost cause until he matures on his own unfortunately

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Anonymous 1w

Wow you could’ve said it better he doesn’t pressure me and I really could care less…he’s had frat house sex and he considers that superior over me bc he’s had sex but they seem to never return or never have a relationship after that

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Anonymous 1w

Oh he’s out of college lol…for 1 year…still has that mindset

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Anonymous 1w

And the funny thing is his body count isn’t high it’s like he’s had 3 and if that so like nothing to toot your horn about and like you said it’s gross to have a high body count

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

But I didn’t go to college so I’ve had more experience in the more mature bar scene and he still tells me it’s a waste to buy a girl a drink if you get nothing from it bc all she did was use you for a free drink

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Anonymous 1w

He still has the frat mentality

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

In general he’s a good person but women and relationships aren’t his strength at all

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