Anonymous #3 6w

Their is always an ulterior motive

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Anonymous #5 6w

I find them to be even mor cruel because you know they're only nice because they expect something from you

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Anonymous #3 6w

…hmm

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 6w

i meant to reply to you. i agree tho. it’s genuine guys out there but it is fairly mixed with the ppl that do it bc they’re just good ppl and the ppl that do it for something in return

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Anonymous OP 6w

Ok when u phrase it likes this, when girls say he’s “too nice” it usually means they’ve got some deep insecurities and they don’t think they deserve someone that nice. There’s other reasons too, like if he’s just a pushover with no real goals, but he treats u really nice but just has no real personality, but that can also be true of women as well

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Anonymous #5 6w

ahh i understand. I know some guys that are non confrontational. I like how you put it tho, not only centering it on men and acknowledging the fact that the girl might be the one with the underlying issues (not tryna say it’s her fault in any way)

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Anonymous #6 6w

you can fetishize weight ?💀wtf thats weird ash, im sorry you went through that homie

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Anonymous OP 6w

Odd amount of men that will do plus size girlies dirty like that yes lol unfortunately used to it but ty anyways 💀

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Anonymous OP 6w

Plenty of men fetishize weight? “You must be tight because you are so small.” Was something I heard a bit before. So yeah weight is absolutely an aspect.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 6w

I never be around ppl like that so i’m just oblivious or ignorant or some to that. I didn’t know it was ppl that talk like that to women fr, thought it was just like kinky talk between couples an shi

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Anonymous OP 6w

Oh no it’s awful. I wouldn’t say it’s particularly common but there will always be people who fetishize both sides of the weight spectrum. It’s especially bad if a woman is overweight.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 6w

mmmm

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