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anyone else really scared to get married and have kids because new stories come out every day of men cheating on their wives? like even the ones who are “super sweet” and would be the LAST person someone expects to cheat. gosh, it’s just terrifying
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Anonymous 15w

Genuinely worst fear

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Anonymous 15w

there are loyal men out there! And, even though it’s hard to tell 100% that someone will never cheat, you can date intentionally and give yourself a good chance to get to know a man fully before committing.

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Anonymous 15w

Ummm not to mention that a baby wipes your body out and you’re never the same again.

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Anonymous 15w

My heart wants to marry but my brain won’t let me

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Anonymous 15w

Nope… because I already lived it 😔 my gf of FIVE years cheated on me and dumped me in the worst time of my life. I had already given her a promise ring. I loved her. And she stabbed my back, and spitted on my face on her way to another man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Yes bro even just getting into relationships scares me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I never used to be this scared but after dating a few guys and knowing how quickly they switch up (with no explanation or reason) and lose interest, i’m so scared. I’ve never dated a guy who wasn’t described as “sweet”, but they always switch up and become evil

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

i’m just terrified that will happen to me years into a marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Yeah my last guy lied about literally all his major life events like he was just capping about EVERYTHING 😭

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