Ask Women on Yik Yak | I like this guy but he wants me to wear less “slutty” clothes I like him and he’s a good guy but also wtf??

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I like this guy but he wants me to wear less “slutty” clothes I like him and he’s a good guy but also wtf??

Anonymous 4w

Don’t change yourself for a guy. If he wants someone who dresses differently, he can go find someone else. Doesn’t matter if he’s a “good guy” or not, you might just not want the same things

Anonymous 4w

Girls showing off too much dressing “slutty” is like guys giving too much attention to other girls “unintentionally”

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Anonymous 4w

he doesn’t sound like the right person for you. you shouldn’t go into dating someone wanting to change them.

Anonymous 4w

he’s gonna be a no from me

Anonymous 4w

Honestly red flag, just be careful bc that but it can become a problem with control. A woman should be able to wear what she likes and feels good in, and her man should be secure enough to know she’s his no matter who looks.

Anonymous 4w

I feel like it depends on what you define slutty as tbh- And some guys hate attention and confrontation and don't wanna have to fight off ppl who assume you are single bc of how you dress or get stares everywhere-

Anonymous 4w

Probe him a bit. See what he thinks of shirtless frat guys. Ask if he watches porn - porn often increases sexual thoughts about others and decreases respect for women. Ask him why he doesn’t like your clothes. Casually bring up politics, see if he seems reluctant to share his real views. Sometimes, desire to change your clothing stems from religious or personal beliefs, but sometimes it stems from disrespect and a desire for control.

Anonymous

#3 4w

And guys can flirt with other girls because it’s just words and not cheating typa logic you are giving. It’s a respect thing. If you can’t get that I don’t know what to say

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Anonymous

#1 4w

how is revealing clothing equivalent to talking to other ppl ..

Anonymous

#8 4w

Dressing revealing is not my thing, but I have nothing against those who do. After talking to people of various beliefs on the subject, I learned to put my foot down and refuse to entertain the idea that people who sleep around or dress revealing are somehow wrong or less than.

Anonymous

#8 4w

I come from a religious background, and my bf comes from a conservative family. He likes the way I dress because it’s modest by his standards and in line with his values. I like the way I dress because it’s practical for spontaneous running. Any time he compares me favorably with women who dress revealing, I remind him that awesome women I’m close with dress that way, and that they deserve respect.

Anonymous

#8 4w

(I’m with him because whatever his beliefs, he treats people with respect and compassion. That’s what’s important to me)

Anonymous

#8 4w

This was the best most helpful response thank you for taking the time.