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How do you feel about the state of current dating culture/ hook up culture?
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Anonymous 6w

It’s not something I’m interested in being a part of right now I wouldn’t say it’s as bad as a lot of people try to say it is but it just seems messy

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Anonymous 6w

never had any issues personally.

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Anonymous 6w

Not interested in hooking up. I tell all potential partners that I don’t do sex before marriage. If that’s what they’re there for, they have to marry me first. Most F-boys just leave.

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Anonymous 6w

I don’t like it so I don’t do it. I will say it’s hard to find someone who doesn’t want hookups/ wants to date but that’s my problem not anyone else’s.

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Anonymous 6w

I think majority of the woman that are single are intentionally choosing to be cause men suck and the majority in a relationship/ talking stage are just settling for just good enough. Men just want validation that having a gf/hook up would give them.

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Anonymous 6w

i dislike it, and i don’t think hookup culture is good for the happiness of the majority of the population. the dating culture is what you make of it though— set your own standards and boundaries.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

that’s a sad way of generalizing people.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 6w

I didn’t say it’s all, but it’s majority of what I see around me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

well when you say “men just want validation..”

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 6w

Maybe not all, but all the ones I’ve experienced

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

really? wow that sucks i’m sorry that’s been your experience. i guess id be pretty jaded in your shoes too

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 6w

Yeahh, but it is what is. I have some good guy friends (they’re more of the “married to their career guys”) but they help give me a bit of faith good ones could be out there. I’m just staying single though otherwise 😵‍💫

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

If you don’t think it’s bad that’s because you don’t have experience in it or with people trying to get you to participate in it. I promise you it IS that bad and you’re lucky you haven’t seen that side of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Hookup culture has always been bad in different ways, I don’t want to participate rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

same

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