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I’m so scared my girlfriend is going to cheat on me when she goes out to the bars, she’s always said how anti cheating she is. I’m just really worried
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Anonymous 5w

your own insecurity is going to drive you insane

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Anonymous 5w

I wouldn’t be worried, cheating with a random person at a bar is more of a male expression of infidelity. For me when I’m in love with someone I only want them and the hottest person on earth could be standing there but I’d only want my partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’m just really worried, she said the other day that she wants some space, we’ve been back at college for the last 5 weeks and she’s been staying with me, she said she wants space to rebalance everything and spend more time with her friends. I’m scared, her location hasn’t updated in 20 mins either

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

So what do I do?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

you have to work on trusting your girlfriend. there's no simple trick to doing it, but if you can't, you should probably break up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

you already have your locations shared, which is a bigger privacy invasion than i'd ever put up with. how much more can you expect her to do just to make you feel comfortable?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Then give her space and focus on something else

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