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I have a question for girls, I’m 4 month mastrubation free and 9 months sex free and I have no doubt I’ll keep this going till I get married, what are girls opinion on this? Does it add excitement to the wedding day?
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Anonymous 1w

personally i would definitely not date someone like that, but im sure there’s women out there that would be into that

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Anonymous 1w

this is a really big green flag for girls who have the same standards. beating lust is crazy hard and honestly a huge achievement and from my experience allows two people in a relationship to build something off of actual connection instead of just physicality

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Anonymous 1w

Honestly it concerns me that you don’t have a healthy relationship with masturbation and sex, and I’d be worried that problems would arise come time to start having sex with eachother

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Anonymous 1w

Idk I’ve not had sex in years but I’m not a virgin and I swear the longer I go without it the less excited I get about doing it again but maybe that’s just me

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Anonymous 1w

it just comes across as weird to me, but I'm not religious so I know I'm not the target audience

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Anonymous 1w

Yeah no thank you. Anyone who’s waiting until marriage is probably very religious (and I would guess Christian as well) and I don’t want anyone super religious. Also I think/ view sex as a natural thing. By waiting I feel that creates unrealistic expectations. I wouldn’t wait until marriage to have sex with my partner.

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Anonymous 6d

that’s awesome, i still wouldn’t date someone like that bc ur not also a virgin waiting for marriage but good for you

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

Interesting, why?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i view sex as a healthy and important part of a relationship. it strengthens connection and intimacy and is a great stress reliever. i find great fulfillment in being able to express myself sexually and express love that way. i don’t see any gain to denying myself something i find so pleasurable and beneficial.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

Hm makes sense, I like sex a lot too and I like showing love thru it as well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

so why the celibacy?

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

Religious reasons but outside of that I don’t really think anyone other than my wife deserves me fucking them, not in an ego way but more in a I respect myself type of way. I’ve had sex before many times but I wouldn’t want to please someone that’s not guaranteed to stay

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

interesting perspective. hope you find a gal that will appreciate that, goodluck

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

Thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

You not being religious doesn’t change the fact that ur opinions matters too! I was just curious

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

well thank you for being open minded 🤝

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Also to be completely honest I would fear judgment for my masturbation habits, even if married if still want to use my vibrator on occasion and I want a man who is fine with that

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