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How would I respectfully and kindly ask someone out or even communicate in general I often find myself being so nervous that I stumble over my words and just make it awkward for everyone :(
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Anonymous 1d

Truly it depends on the person. I would watch for signs that they don’t want to talk like being currently in conversation, having headphones in, or focusing on work

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Anonymous 1d

You don’t have to overthink it. “Hi, would you like to grab coffee with me?” If they say no then that’s it. People complicate it a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

yeahhh i’ve been keeping that in mind and trying not to be too like energetic since i realized if im too energetic it’s kinda annoying but thank you 🙇

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

yeahh i think i just have to work on just getting myself comfortable enough to go up to them and not sound like a creep 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Even if you are awkward I wouldn’t immediately think that you are creepy. Creepy is more how you act. Staring at our chests, or doing something like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

nah I would never I’m just trying to figure out which eye to look at since I can’t focus on both 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Oh I don’t make eye contact either! Just stare at the forehead, that looks like you are looking in the eyes.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

I KNEW THAT WAS EASIER AGH i always thought people could tell if im looking at their eyes or forehead 😭 thank you so much 🙇

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Oh no they absolutely can’t tell! It’s great, I never take in any information about eyes and they stay non the wiser.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

ouuu sneaky sneaky ehehhe that’s good phew

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