Ask Women on Yik Yak | I do talk a lot to my bf. I am not a social person so he is mostly the only person I talk too. Lately I’ve noticed his patience is less and less. He makes it known that he didn’t hear me or wasn’t paying attention. It’s like a near constant thing.

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I do talk a lot to my bf. I am not a social person so he is mostly the only person I talk too. Lately I’ve noticed his patience is less and less. He makes it known that he didn’t hear me or wasn’t paying attention. It’s like a near constant thing.

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Anonymous 2d

that’s a really bad sign. you need to have a conversation with him and tell him you haven’t been feeling heard. if he’s not receptive to it then you may have to rethink the relationship

Anonymous 1d

I don’t think you’re the immediate issue, he might be struggling with something else that he doesn’t want/know how to talk about. I would sit down with him and ask if he’s ok and/or what’s wrong.

Anonymous 1d

I was having this issue for a min. Lemme tell you: don’t get egotistical. I thought it was all about me and something I was doing wrong or maybe he was wasn’t interested anymore, but it’s most likely that he has something weighing on his mind. Men can be solitary like that, they try to hide it all, so just give him the support you would if you heard him directly say “I’m struggling.” He probably is but doesn’t know how to say that.