Ask Women on Yik Yak | I need opinions. My roommate is a long time best friend of mine and she recently broke up with her bf of three years. After a week I finally saw her happy again and I think it just awoke some feelings inside of me, and made me realize I am in love (1/?)

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Ask Women 7w

I need opinions. My roommate is a long time best friend of mine and she recently broke up with her bf of three years. After a week I finally saw her happy again and I think it just awoke some feelings inside of me, and made me realize I am in love (1/?)

Anonymous 7w

to continue. I used to like her back in freshman year of high school, but moved on. But I think between that and also a conversation we had where we were talking about everything that happened between them, she mentioned that she really wished how he would pay attention and actively listen in their conversations, and how she really liked that about me. I feel weird and like it would he very selfish of me to tell her how I feel now, since she recently broke up with him. (2/?)

Anonymous 7w

It is so rare to have a genuine connection like the one you described. I hope everything works well for you!

Anonymous 7w

I’d advice on not doing anything about it at the current moment. She’s probably going through shit, and I also think it would be wise to take time and see if you’re truly into her, or just romanticizing the possibility of it. Either way, good luck <3

Anonymous

OP 7w

In addition I support her through a lot of stuff she has going on and shes been depending on me to be there for her, and I really dont want to mess that up. Furthermore, she is also going to be away this summer from everyone she knows, and I really dont want to push her away for her own sake because I am afraid that she wont have someone there if her mental health gets really bad. In addition we are living together next year as well. (3/4)

Anonymous

OP 7w

To finally cap it off she wants just me and her to live together after I graduate and shes in her senior year, which I think that would be really good for us both since shes been the best roomate ive had. I really dont want to make things awkward between us by telling her I love her, but I also dont want to bottle up these feelings since I want to move on if she does not feel the same. Regardless I still want to be her best friend because we look out for one another.

Anonymous

#2 7w

Okay, but like should I tell her how I feel or not. Im scared of hurting her, or pushing her away, so I have no idea what I should do

Anonymous

OP 7w

A good hefty turd’ll do the trick

Anonymous

#1 7w

Right on her chest