Dump your bf rn bc wtf???? I’m so sorry that happened to you. Why is he not being comforting and taking it as a blow to his ego? Does he even care that you are hurting from being assaulted

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SA and ra*e should never count as cheating - from a male.

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As a guy: DUMP HIS ASS

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nah ur bf is just a piece of shit

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ABSOLUTELY NOT. if that child cannot differentiate the difference between voluntary cheating and sa, then he has a problem. dump his ass.

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SA is never your fault

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Wtfffff, GET RID OF HIM!!!!!

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Textbook victim blaming. If I was your bf, that pos guy would be getting a very unpleasant visit.

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Holy shit, dump your boyfriend right now, assault is never the victim’s fault

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Kill your bf

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This may be ask women, but as a guy, this is so fucked up. You didn’t cheat, you were assaulted. Your bf sounds really paranoid.

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let that bozo go bro

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Hot take from a dude: 1. I always tell girls explicitly not to include any SA in their body count 2. if I found out my girl had been SA’d, I’d be filing a police report and buying a gun to unalive that mofo 3. I’d be as emotionally and physically supportive as possible and remind her that I still love her and that we are in this (fighting this man) together 4. I’d expect my girl to treat my the same if I was SA’d

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I’m so sorry that happened to you. Exchange your bf for a man with working brain cells

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Wtf?? Absolutely not! SA and cheating are not the same. Cheating is a choice, SA was forced

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From a guy, LEAVE HIM, that is not what love looks like. He should be supporting you not accusing you

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Get rid of that fucking boyfriend. You did nothing wrong. This was not your fault. You didn’t cheat because you survived in the safest way you could. How fucking dare he do anything but give you support right now.

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You mean your ex boyfriend. Babes let that man go

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Uhhhh, no

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Imma just leave this here

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Also yeah DROP HIS ASS

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dump him rn. i had recently gotten SAd as well & i told the guy im seeing & he did not consider it cheating & that was the last thing on his mind. so yes breakup with him. he'd be understanding if he really loved you.

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Get a new bf

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girl fuck no KILL UR BF

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Baby. That isn’t cheating

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All imma say is that if this happened to my gf, that fella would’ve disappeared as soon as I found out

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This should be about YOU and what YOU need to heal and feel safe, not about him he’s such a bitch boy

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DUMP THAT NIGGA NOW! Not a woman but I feeeeeeel like I don’t need to be to agree.

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Get a new bf babe. He should be comforting you and helping you through this incredibly traumatic time. You didn’t cheat you were assaulted.

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Uhm, no, he’s not your boyfriend anymore. Piece of misogynistic shit he is.

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I’m so glad of the comments here. Please break up with your boyfriend .. the fact that his first reaction is not empathy but blaming you is scary😬

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no that’s not cheating get a new bf that’s actually disgusting- male

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As a guy, dump your bf that’s so fucked up. I’m so sorry that this happened to you.

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Hell no wtf is wrong with your boyfriend

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Babe, PLEASE let that man go, im begging you. That is a walking red flag wtf

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As a dude: the definition of cheating is INTENTIONALLY screwing another guy. There was nothing intentional about your actions. If your BF doesn’t change your tune then break with his ass

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leave him rn you do not need that dumbass energy in your life after what you went through and dont blame yourself for what happened either

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GET OUT HELL NO I’m so sorry this is happening to you

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Dump👏 his👏 ass👏 that’s not love and it won’t help long term. You’re hurting and he can’t even ask if you’re ok and comfort you from there. If you need anyone to talk to, even though I’m a stranger, I’ll keep my DMs on if you need to reach out. You are strong and you can get past this and grow even stronger!🫶

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As a man, leave your boyfriend and never look back. I understand him being upset about that but acting like you cheated is fucking WILD and a MASSIVE red flag, he clearly cares about being the only person with access to you a hell of a lot more than he actually cares about YOU as a person

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DUMP YOUR BOYFRIEND NOW

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Ur bf is a weirdo and a sick individual

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i’m so sorry, dump your bf even if u r so in love w him. red flags from all angles

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Girl i had a similar situation and my boyfriend also thought i cheated

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That’s like saying it’s cheating for you to get punched in the face by a stranger. Leave him baby.

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Ur man is a dick 🫡 run

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Yea that’s not your bf. Hes showed his true colors and you deserve better. Dump his ass right now. Or, just fucking block him. Idk if he deserves an explanation for being such a dumbass.

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